I vacillate regularly between feeling like I'm absolutely fucking winning at life and feeling like I am a complete screw-up who does everything wrong. I remind myself constantly that I'm doing just fine - I'm not in a competition, and if I was, there are people who do things wrong way more often than I do. The more I talk to the women in my life, the more I realize that we're all the same, experiencing these same crazy thoughts and emotions. When are we ever going to be "grown up"? Is that even a real thing, or just some illusory crap we make up when we're little - maybe growing up really is just a literal thing. Maybe we just get bigger, not anymore put-together.
I know that's not true, of course. I know some people who appear to have their shit together. Appear to. It could all be a farce - they all have secrets I'll never know about that cause them secret guilt and angst, I'm certain. Because we all do, don't we?
I almost lost my blog. Again. That happened once before, years ago, when I was just home from Texas and trying to get my shit together after my divorce. I talked a lot of shit about my ex-husband in that blog - no lies or vitriol, just flat out facts as I saw them, even the dirty ones - and, well, he didn't care much for that once he found it. I have a bad habit of using the same passwords, and he had someone hack my shit and delete it. I didn't have a backup. I'm still really sad about that when I think about it, which is almost never. I wrote something about my Granny that I'd really like to still have. And I'd probably like to reread some of that tripe at some point, maybe. Maybe not. It'd be nice to have the option to ignore it.
This time it wasn't that sort of thing. This time, I had an expired credit card linked to my domain registration, and then couldn't remember the admin username or password to log in and make the necessary updates. For weeks, I tried every few days to reset the shit, and for weeks, Google returned the same frustrating message: We cannot verify it's you. WTF Google? Did you not just send me a fucking message to this fucking account?
Whatever. So my domain expired on July 24. I got a final notice on Wednesday, and so I decided to make one last-ditch attempt, vowing that I'd then call the helpdesk and talk a live person and make them fix my shit. I'm not sure what different links I clicked on this time, but there in the middle of the screen I saw what I needed: "Your domain name may be (domainadmin@____)". What the hell, I figured - I went back to the login screen...sure as shit, there it was. Ta Da!
And that's the story of how I secured my domain registration at least through 2019. Goshdang I tell a great story. :/